Tips on how to be a good friend

Today I nak bagi tips on how to be a good friend or a good best friend or a good girl :) Memandangkan I mempunyai pengalaman berkawan dengan orang sampai berbelas tahun dan our friendship still utuh. (acece mengada pulak rasa. hehe) so I macam nak bagi tips about this. hehehehee. Ni semua I just tulis what I thought. Takde curi dari mana-mana pihak. Nak baca or amalkan di persilakan tak nak baca pun takpe :p

Be Yourself
When you meet someone new, try to be yourself. Jangan jadi orang lain. Be yourself di sini bermaksud jangan pretend jadi baik jadi sopan jadi orang yang gelak perlahan-lahan jadi orang yang lemah lembut sedangkan diri sendiri yang sebenar bukan begitu. But if you memang dah sopan macam tu janganlah tukar jadi kasar pulak. haha. If others can accept you just the way you are (haa macam lagu pulak) so its a bonus for you. Jadi lepas ni dah boleh jadi kawan baik lah sebab dah kenal diri kita yang sebenar kan. There's no istilah I have to change to get into this group this clique or whatsoever. Just be yourself.

Update
Always keep in touch with your friends. No matter how busy you are, no matter how far you are, a single simple message can make a lot of difference. If takde credit nak call, message pun boleh. Setakat 1sen seposen 5sen tu apalah sangat kan. Nak message boyfriend/girlfriend ada pulak credit. Takkan nak message kawan baik takde credit. Jangan kedekut. If ada masa hangout la sekali sekala to kongsi some stories, juicy gossips, share heart to heart talks and more. If takde masa nak share private talks dekat message gunalah any medium to communicate. Gunalah facebook. Yahoo Messenger, Skype etc.

Loyal and Respect
You must always remain loyal to your friend no matter in good or bad times in order to become a good best friends. Jangan pulak bila senang je baru nak pegi carik kawan tu and bila susah tak nak tolong. Next you must always respect your friends. Respect their kedudukan, pendapat, gelaran etc. Do not criticize, comdemn or critique your friends especially dari segi kedudukan. Even you ni kaya sampai ada istana pun and your friend ni miskin sampai rumah pun nak roboh dah, you still need to respect them. If you rasa takde standard kawan dengan orang macam ni its better for you to leave and don't be their friend in the first place.

Feelings
Don't you ever ever ever hurt your friends feelings. If in a joking way tu lain citelah. Nama pun gurau. Gurau-gurau kasar la best kan. hehe. But if cakap in a serious voice expression semua tu dah tak kira gurau dah. If kita ada terasa hati dengan kawan-kawan its better if you confess to them. Talk in private. Discuss properly. If they are really your friends, they can accept it better and there will be no gaduh-gaduh. If girls selalunya bila dah ada serious talk about something issues paling teruk pun mesti nangis-nangis je. Lepas tu berdamai happy ending. Tak payah la nak pegi cite kat orang lain bad things bout your friend sebab lambat laun mungkin cite or gossip tu akan sampai kat your friend tu nanti dah jadi gaduh besar haaaa. Then lagi satu tak payah la nak express-express feelings pasal kawan-kawan kat facebook twitter etc coz it might make your friends become more menyampah malas nak layan you sendiri. Like I said its better to confess terus. But if you terasa hati or bergaduh dengan someone yang bukan kawan you are allowed to post-post kat status sebab tu bukan your friend. So tak payah la nak jaga hati. hehehehe

Appreciate
Always always and always value and appreciate your friends. Sebab kawan baik bukan senang untuk di cari so to maintain your friendship, appreciate them. Let them know how much you value your friendship. There are lots of things that we can do to appreciate them. Even tanya khabar or a phone call pun dah boleh tunjuk that you care about your friend and you appreciate them. Let them know that you love them. Tak payah la cakap I love you setiap hari kat your friend. Nanti takut pulak dia. Your expressions pun dah mainkan peranan so if rasa sebelum ni tak pernah buat macam ni you can start from now :)

Bye :)